Welcome Horse Show Moms and Dads to your special page!  This page is designed to make your job a little easier.  We
hope you find this information helpful and remember if you have any questions, please do not hesitate to ask.   

The role of Horse Show Mom and Horse Show Dad is one of great importance.  Your positive attitude, encouragement
and ultimately your approval will demonstrate to your child that they matter.  Your involvement proves to them that their activity
is important to you.   They have worked tirelessly to get to this point and you are there for them once again as their biggest
fan.

The benefits to showing horses are not just in the obvious fun and pageantry.  Horses and horse shows specifically teach
many lessons that will carry over into your young rider’s personal and professional life.  Watching your child’s transformation
from the timid beginning rider to a show ring ready competitor is a sight to behold.   But, aside from the showiness of it all, are
the life lessons and the bond that is born between horse and rider.  

Problem Solving, Patience, and Participation

Horse showing teaches your young rider to problem solve and think through issues when they arise in the ring and in life. Every
athlete goes through a slump - your horse may not be performing up to par, increasing difficulty in patterns may be unsettling,
there might be a mismatch between your skills and that of your horse or any number of other problems. To horse show
successfully, you have to learn to solve those day by day, issue by issue. Horses, like people, have good days and not so
good days.  A gifted rider will be bonded to their horse and know when to push and when to take it a little slower for the
greater good.  Patience and understanding are two skills that will serve the young show rider well.  This is a hands on sport and
participation is another key to your child’s success.  If your child rider does not participate, their ability to be successful will be
compromised.  

Determination and Perseverance

It will take a lot of hard work to horse show, whether your child is an entry level rider or a national competitor.  To have success
even once in awhile takes determination and practice, to qualify for a national show takes even more. It means getting up at 4:30
am to be in the ring by first light, cleaning tack, and practicing patterns.  It means long hours at the barn and riding many horses-
not just the show horse.   Many times your child rider will ride two horses when the schedule allows.  That same determination
and hard work will teach your young rider how to stay focused to achieve A's in school and the ability to volunteer with a can
do attitude.

Goal Setting and Planning

Setting goals is an important life skill and horse showing gives your child rider so many opportunities to do just that. Setting
goals like qualifying for certain events, getting in the ribbons, winning a class, or riding through a difficult pattern will allow your
child the opportunity to learn all that they can achieve. We will meet together to set annual, individual and overall goals so that
we have adequate time to practice to reach for those goals. Your child will learn to plan his or her time around horse showing,
school and social events, and we will make choices as a team. Your child rider will learn about fitness, preparation and remaining
healthy so that they are fit to show. Young show riders learn they can achieve goals sometimes and at other times we had to
amend our aspirations.  Showing horses teaches how to adjust to life in so many ways.

Organizational Skills

Packing and preparing to hit the ring takes a great deal of planning.  Remembering everything, getting dressed, remaining calm
and collected – it’s a tall order but certainly attainable.  Everything has a place and must be organized if you want to horse
show without chaos. We at Foster Farm are strict about organization and cleanliness in the barn area and there is no place for
sloppiness at the show. A good lesson that can also be applied at home!  Think of the lists, the planning and packing,
unpacking and then repacking if you help out at the barn. Show clothes, hair nets, derbies, gloves, and other key items have to
be packed. High school classes have to be organized with homework and tests managed for a show schedule. Your student
rider’s grades must be kept up while showing horses again providing an invaluable time management lesson.

Responsibility and Sacrifice

There are numerous responsibilities in caring for a horse that totally depends on humans for his care. Scheduling lessons,
practice riding and readying a horse for the show ring all take time and are great experiences in responsibility. If your child rider
cannot ride regularly, their skills will diminish along with their confidence.  Making sacrifices so that your child rider has adequate
time in the saddle will be required if success is expected.  You would not expect your child to be in a play without first
rehearsing their lines and similarly horse shows also require that time is spent practicing and honing their skills.  Being
responsible and having your child rider show up when scheduled will ensure they do not fall behind in their work.  We will not let
your child rider delegate all of the grooming, tacking and care of the horse to the trainer and the grooms. Remember part of
this should be about horsemanship so being responsible for your horse is a great life lesson.

Confidence and Poise

Horse showing will teach your child rider how to be a gracious winner and how to lose with dignity. It is about learning a
pattern and riding through adversity; think of an outdoor show in the wind, rain, snow and mud.  When your child gets his or her
show horse to do what they want and their efforts are rewarded with a win, it will build tremendous confidence.  Losing with
dignity and grace teaches poise and sportsmanship. Not every ride will go perfectly and most of the real lessons are from the
rides that do not go your way.  Losing can teach your child rider how to manage his or her fears and stay on track to attain
their goals.  

Why We Show Horses

Horse showing will be a lot of fun but it will also be a sacrifice on your part. It is going to be hard work for the whole family.  
Looking back, however, you will see the positive impact showing horses will have on your child.   This sport is not for everyone
but it will have a lasting influence and will provide you and your family with many fond memories.
WELCOME HORSE SHOW
MOMS AND DADS
"Destiny is not a
matter of
chance; but a
matter of choice
It is not a thing
to be waited for,
It is a thing to be
achieved."

-William
Jennings Bryan